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What is coaching?
How is coaching different from consulting, mentoring, therapy, or
having a really great "best" friend?
Who hires coaches?
What areas of life can a coach help me with?
Why coaching works?
Is telephone coaching really effective?
Where do the coach and client first focus their efforts?
How soon can the client expect to see results?
What goes on during a coaching session?
How do I know if coaching is right for me?
Why do clients pay in advance?
How long do people work with a coach?
Do you guarantee your coaching?
Do coaches have a Code of Ethics?
What is coaching?
In the same way that athletes see
their performance increase with the support and guidance of a great coach, the
rest of us can see our performance increase in our daily lives with the
assistance of a coach.
A Life Coach will help you develop and execute a
plan to work toward your goals. Your Life Coach will listen intently, ask you to
probe deeper, guide you as you define your goals, design your plan, and help you
to achieve your goals.
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Ask a lot of
questions!
Before you enter into a coaching relationship, ask your
potential coach a lot of questions. Make sure you understand the coach's
approach, policies and procedures. This important step will help you avoid
surprises and
disappointments
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How
is coaching different from consulting, mentoring, therapy, or having a really
great "best" friend?
Coaching is very different. If we take a look at each, we find that:
- Consulting involves hiring an expert who you hope has the answers. The
Consultant is hired to “Fix” whatever problem is put in front of them. The Coach
on the other hand, is hired to help you find the best way to achieve your goals
and make the improvements you want. The Coach believes that you are the best
expert for your life. In a coaching relationship, it is truly “All About
You!”
- A Mentor has some similarities with a Coach in that both should be looking
at where you are going in life. However, the Mentor typically focuses on one
specific part of your life. For example, you may hire a Career Mentor who has
years of experience in your chosen field. The Mentor will share their secrets
and approach with you and help you develop professionally, but will remain
narrowly focused on the work part of your life. Your Life Coach however, will
always be helping ensure you have balance, since without balance, success in one
area of your life may well lead to disaster in another.
- Most therapists work with patients focusing on the past to identify
psychological issues, their root causes, and possible therapeutic and medicinal
treatments. A Therapist works to help clients become healthy and well adapted.
Coaches, on the other hand typically work with healthy people who want to take a
proactive role to improve their lives or become exceptional performers.
- Having a really great best friend and a supportive family are important
components of an effective support system. A Coach is a wonderful addition to
your support structure since a coach offers an independent view of your world,
with no hidden motives or preconceived notions about what you can or should
achieve.
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Who hires coaches? I thought coaching was only for corporate
executives.
There is no doubt that Corporate Executives have benefited significantly from
their relationships with coaches. However, executives are not the only people
who can benefit from having a coach. Anyone who wants to improve their life in
some way can achieve great results with the support of a coach. Coaches may also
be extremely beneficial during transitions in your life. For example, college
students preparing for graduation, individuals facing job changes, or mid-career
professionals looking for a change are frequent coaching clients.
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What areas of life can a coach help me with?
A coach
can help with virtually any improvement you wish to make in your life. Instead
of having you read a long list of possible ideas, ask yourself the following
questions:
* What would I like to change in my life to make me feel more successful,
fulfilled, or happy?
* What thing(s) about my life do I tolerate today but wish I could
change?
Odds are that you have just identified the first items that you would work
with your coach to explore, set goals around, and achieve.
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Why coaching works?
Coaching works because you
already have the ability to achieve your goals, all you need is someone to help
keep you on track as you work towards that goal. Your coach becomes your
confidant, cheer leader, supporter, sounding board and sanity check all in one,
but the real work comes from you. Armed with your goal as your mission, you head
out to achieve your goal knowing that you have a well-planned approach and a
support system to get you through it all.
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Is telephone coaching really effective?
Yes, in fact
the vast majority of all coaching is conducted over the phone. Many coaches feel
that telephone coaching is even more effective than face to face coaching since
visual distractions are eliminated for both the client and the coach allowing
more focused attention on the issues at hand.
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Where do the coach and client first focus their
efforts?
The efforts will be focused on whatever issue the client feels
is most important and is most willing to actively work on at the time.
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How soon can the client expect to see results?
That
is up to you and the issue you are working on. Some clients (including myself)
have seen dramatic results within the first couple of weeks. In other
situations, progress may be much slower, but still continuing at a steady pace
until the goal is achieved.
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What goes on during a coaching session?
During a
typical coaching session, you will be doing a lot of talking while your coach
will be doing a lot of listening. As your coach, I will spend as much as 80% of
our time listening to your thoughts and feelings about your goal. The rest of
our time together will be spent making sure we share a common understanding. I
will also be asking you additional questions, and helping you define your plan
of action.
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How do I know if coaching is right for me?
The best
way to know if coaching is right for you is to start the process today and
arrange a no obligation sample session.
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Why do clients pay in advance?
Commitment. As with
anything else, if you pay for it in advance, you are showing your commitment to
what you are undertaking.
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How long do people work with a coach?
Clients may
work with a coach for a few sessions when they have an immediate need, or they
pay maintain a long term relationship with a coach as they continually work to
improve their quality of life. The choice is yours.
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Do you guarantee your coaching?
I guarantee that I
will meet all of my commitments to you, and abide by our Client/Coach agreement.
I also guarantee that I will work diligently with you as you pursue your goals.
I cannot guarantee that you will achieve your goal as that success is up to
you.
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Do coaches have a Code of Ethics?
Yes. Your coach is
the International Coach Federation Code of Ethics.
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Other Questions
Please visit the other pages of our web site, and
our policies and procedures. If you still can’t find what you are looking for,
email me and I will get back to you as quickly as possible.